The calendar says it’s time for the annual tradition of making New Year’s resolutions. Gyms will be full of people (at least for a couple of weeks) trying to get in shape. Offices might empty earlier as people resolve to spend more time with family and live a balanced life. Others may resolve to buckle down on the job with a promotion or a raise in mind.
The turn of the year is a good time to do a gut check to see if you’re being a good leader for your team. How about making ten resolutions to be a better boss?
· Resolve to delegate. Delegation is one of the most critical developmental needs I see in my executive coaching business. Surround yourself with people whose skills complement yours, and delegate tasks that will allow you to focus on the big picture. Holding things too close to the vest can slow growth for your company. It can also slow the development of your people if you do not allow them to take responsibility.
· Resolve not to abdicate. At the other end of the spectrum from delegation is abdication – the boss who doesn’t take responsibility for anything. As a boss, you have to direct the team and provide leadership. It’s a delicate balance between too much and too little leadership, and one that requires constant attention and adjustment.
· Resolve to give credit. Too many bosses shine in the spotlight and take credit for team efforts. This year, give credit where it’s due and highlight the people who help make you look good. Remember that when the team succeeds, it reflects positively on everyone.
· Resolve to solve conflicts. Do you avoid conflict like the plague because you simply don’t know how to handle it? Know when to get involved with disputes and when to allow co-workers to resolve issues on their own. A good boss is both coach and mediator, helping the team through the rough times as well as the good times.
· Resolve to listen more. Don’t be the boss who talks too much, shouting orders and pushing your opinion through. Step back and listen once in a while. Be receptive to other people’s ideas. You might be pleasantly surprised by what you hear.
· Resolve to share information. There are times to listen and there are times to talk. Don’t fall prey to the notion that you can move ahead quicker by retaining critical information just for yourself. Too many bosses hold back information, particularly when it’s bad news, thinking they will resolve the situation themselves. The team will operate more effectively under a practice of full disclosure.
· Resolve to treat everyone equally. Many bosses have a “teacher’s pet” that seems to get his or her way more than others. This can be especially true in a family-run company where perhaps one sibling is shown favor. You can raise your credibility with subordinates by not playing favorites and treating everyone fairly and equitably.
· Resolve to give constructive feedback. Some managers are bullies, embarrassing people in public by pointing out their mistakes. They think it makes them look like a stronger leader when, in fact, it makes them look weak. More effective leaders know how to give constructive criticism that will allow people to learn and grow. Being a bully only creates tension and “yes people” around you who will bring down the team as a whole.
· Resolve to stay connected. The corporate grapevine is one of the best sources of information for bosses. It’s amazing what you can learn by staying connected to everyone in the office. One way to do that is by what I call “walking-around management.” Simply walking the halls and talking to people casually can bring you up to speed on current corporate initiatives, what people are concerned about and who’s coming and going. Try to have a few advisers who will keep you up to speed and be honest with you, not filter the information and tell you only what you want to hear.
· Resolve to say thank you. We’re just coming off the holidays, when everyone was filled with goodwill. Retain that spirit throughout the year by showing appreciation for those around you. Stop occasionally to say thank you to people on your team for a job well done. Try not to work people too hard, and if you have to ask people to go the extra mile, occasionally, acknowledge their efforts. Your appreciation will be returned.